I grew up in Chicago and went to school at Bama . In all the years I was at school , I was never into NASCAR . Then my buddy from Chicago who I ' ve known since I was 4 called me one day and said " Man , I can ' t believe you live that close to Talladega and you ' ve never gone !" Needless to say , he ' s a big NASCAR fan . ( even us Yankees like our racin ) So , he continued to bug me until I finally gave in and we went to the Spring race in 1997 . It rained for 3 days straight and we never got to see a full race . Saw qualifying on Thursday and that ' s about it . BUT , I was hooked . And considering my buddy was a HUGE Earnhardt fan , I decided he would be my driver too . For the next 4 years , I proudly wore my Earnhardt gear and am proud to say I saw him win 4 times .
I preface with that because February 18th , 2001 will be a day I will never forget - much like Spetember 11th . I remember I had a Daytona party at my house ( will have another one this Sunday ) and as Fox cut away my friend said " The only time an ambulance goes that slow is when the person is dead ." Now , she is not a racing fan and I was ****ed as hell at her but unfortunately it turned out ture . I remember sitting at the bar of my favorite sports bar near my house and there was not a dry eye in the place . Quiet too .
For about a week , I was a walking zombie . People at work knew I was a big race fan and just kinda left me alone . It wasn ' t until that weekend ' s race at Rockingham that the fog started to lift . I , Like the drivers , realized that life must go on . Dale would have wanted it that way . Still , not seeing that black # 3 almost brought me to tears again . And when Jr crashed on the 1st lap , my heart just about broke again . BUT , Steve Park winning really showed that Dale was watching his boys that day .
Fast forward 2 races to Atlanta . I was there . That ' s where they started the 3 finger , third lap salute . Harvick ' s win brought me almost fully back . I realized that even though Dale was gone and will never be forgotten , there were other drivers out there who I could root for and they would do Dale proud .
Jr ' s win at Daytona brought me fully back and then seeing him in person win at Talladega in the fall cemented the fact that he and Harvick were going to be " my boys " Since then , I have had closure on Dale ' s death and I look forward to this year ' s season to finally put his death behind me ( but NEVER forget ) and get on with life .
Sorry for the long rant but that was therapudic .....
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