So does Sorsby have a gambling problem? I think the truest indicator is his gambling history. Betting across a variety of sports, year round, using intermediaries to place wagers and willing to do so knowing what was at stake when it came to NCAA regulations certainly speaks to that. The basic thing to understand is that, for the compulsive gambler, the high comes from “the action”, not the winning. Heck winning only means you GET to bet more. Losing means you MUST bet more to “catch up”. Either way you to get feed your habit.
Does the coke user suddenly stop when it isn’t available? Nope. They switch to alcoholic, or crack or meth or another substance. Does the compulsive gambler with an affinity to bet football suddenly stop when the season ends? Of course not. They switch to basketball or baseball or golf or Romanian soccer or cockroach races.
So Sorsby’s trip to inpatient treatment-is it a sincere recognition that he has a problem and needs help? As a compulsive gambler with many years in recovery and having sponsored many in the recovery process, there is little question he has problem. It’s the latter part, whether he is in full recognition of his inability to control his gambling, that I question. I’ve seen it far too many times across addiction- the “fanny is in a vise” and the easiest way to get folks off your back is “go to treatment”.
And the fact that Sorsby has put together a legal team to seek an injunction to allow him to go before a judge to play the “poor, poor, pitiful me. I have mental health issues” tells me he hasn’t reach a point of fully facing his problem and accepting the consequences of his actions. THAT is where building a foundation of recovery on your “rock bottom” truly begins.
Sorsby ain’t there.