I understand your point & agree. The fan base does have good and bad elements, but they come as a package.
True, but I'm willing to give Saban every benefit of the doubt, especially when I can see the point. I mean I read a lot of over some sentiments here, bringing up Dubose and the like. I personally found it frustrating, and I am just a spectator. That's no big deal though, people here know how to behave, but if Alabama loses big to A&M, there's going to be some crazy behavior and may be what Saban said won't help a bit, but I can't blame him for trying.
I was a constant detractor of Mike Shula, I umm... well let's just say my opinion on his performance was so unpleasant that it wasn't welcomed here. I'm not someone that's going to mindlessly backup a coach, but I see logic in what Nick Saban has done, in fact I don't think he does anything without a logical reason and that's why I'm so quick to be supportive. He plans every little detail out, why would I think he gets up there and grumbles just because he's moody? I remember the announcers during the Florida game commenting on why fans were not leaving. Did he rub people the wrong way with what he said? Did his wife rub people the wrong way? Sure, but they also got at least a certain level of results. The thing is, if it's players we expect, well demand they take the criticism and let him coach them. But, if he considers us part of the team's success, and he's made it clear he does, then if he sends a message then I think it's done for a purpose, not to serve some egotistical motivation.
Having said all of that, I do get why a loyal, devoted fan might bristle at criticism. Take crimsonaudio, he's one of the most mature, level headed posters on the forum. He has a right to be indignant at anything that appears to be broad criticism of the fans. I think Saban probably could do a better job at being more specific or perhaps explain more with their criticism.
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My concern really is that this is exactly the type of thing that will push Saban into retirement. Rip him for criticizing the fans and you may just be looking for a replacement.
I was actually just about to edit something about this into what I said, then you put it fairly well. That's the overarching concern. If Saban said we all needed to wear purple to the game, and if we did that would make him happy, then why the heck shouldn't we wear purple even if that's ridiculous and LSU colors? At this point, he's done so well that I'm willing to accept silly or outrageous demands on his part, he in my opinion earned that right. But, I don't think he's even doing that. On the other hand, I do think we as fans could push him into retirement before he otherwise would want to, and there are some fans that seem to gone back to the whole Alabama's Alabama thing, and forget that so much of the success came under just two head coaches. The next head coach is far more likely to struggle than he is to come close to what Saban has done. I'm in no hurry to go back to 10 wins being the highlight of a coach's career.