Succinctly put, the public will just have to deal with it. Public sentiment is not a reason to deny rights. That would be an endorsement of the "tyranny of the majority". That is precisely why we are a democratic constitutional republic and NOT a democracy.
While the the military is a small entity it still comprised of citizens of the us from all 50
States and us territories. So it is a decent size to experiment on social actions and reactions. But I guess we are going to have to agree to disagree on what the rate of speed social change should be implemented as long as it eventually changes.
This is probably my last post here because this thread has gone past jumping the shark, and is teetering into the nuking the fridge category.