I've discussed this before but I do a lot of mentoring of young people in my industry. That often takes place at lunches and dinners especially when traveling for work. Over the last 10-15 years tech went from mostly nerdy dudes like to me lots and lots more women. Also unlike when I started there were a few nerdy women, now tech is cool so over the last decade or so we have more and more very attractive very smart women in the field. I often have dinners, drinks, lunches with them and Mrs J doesn't care a bit because after 32 years together she knows 1, I have no game and 2 that she can trust me completely. I feel the same with her