Well, the ability to see things from a common perspective may have officially left the building with that.because the point is to control women
period
In my mind, I don't want to control anyone, just to protect innocent life. Carrying a unwanted pregnancy to term may be an inconvenience, but it is not a guaranteed 20 year commitment. There are options available like adoption. I know couples that have adopted, and the waiting lists are long for that process, so acting like there are no other options after birth is not realistic.
There are resources available to pregnant women as well to get help during pregnancy and after. One of which I have been involved with is Agape of North Alabama.