I work in a cap now. It's on my head as I type. It's like a Scot Golfer's cap. I never realized before chemo how much heat hair retains.
As soon as I leave the office, the hat comes off. It's not a vanity thing for me at all. My daughter, Mia, rocked being bald. I shaved my head when she was going through chemo in 2021, and have been bald since October. I really don't think my hair is coming back. My scalp looks like someone with alopecia. The hair that has come back is super fine and sparse.
I'm OK with it if I'm bald from now on. There are some obvious advantages.
Oddly enough, several years ago, I had to have my right side colon removed. It wasn't cancer, but they said it would have developed to that.
The catch is…being out of fuel on the water, or other preventable breakdowns where the vessel/crew are not in imminent danger, CG will refuse aid and insist they seek help from other boaters or pay someone like SEATOW.
In cases of distress, they will answer the call; but it’s also the obligation of any mariner in the vicinity of the situation to render assistance if possible.
I’ve participated in two - once as crew on an OSV off of Port Aransas where we rescued the crew from a sailboat adrift, and second as captain of a crew boat that towed a shrimp boat that lost all power about 20 miles south of Dauphin Island. First case we were real close, second we answered the CG’s request for assistance because we were 30 minutes away and the only vessels they had that could handle the weather were over three hours away. Nasty tow into 25 knot norther.
I did get a reply from my GSIL, and those are not his orders. There's nothing confidential in his reply, so, rather than a lengthy paraphrase, I'll just post his message back to me. He did say that a
lot of people had mistaken ideas about the CG and their role...
"Well as far as when and where we respond, it's whenever distress is called (hence major penalties for false distress) and wherever we are, good Samaritans are just that, people who assist as they are able and willing, just as in the parable, there are no social or legal requirements to assist; however, there are also NGAs that also assist, like TowBoatUS where in certain areas, due to their lobbying when there is no urgent medical requirement, we must allow them to respond within the scope of there technical expertise. Also there is a US code that specifically provides the uscg the ability to SEIZE civilian assets in major casualty events, think like 9/11, however I'm not familiar with which code or what thresholds must be meet to impose it. As for demanding compensation, since in the eyes of the law the uscg is a law enforcement agency we are legally obligated NOT too receive compensation, donation, or gifts.
But at the end of the day barring outside agreements with civilian businesses the coast guard must respond within the limitations of the vessels we operate and the capability of our operators Good Samaritans are supplemental, not a replacement. They usually assist searches and occasionally transfers to and sometimes through the coast guard's arrival"
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I apologize for the long break in his two messages, but TF's software won't let me eliminate it.)