He said after his Allbarn visit that he was going to sit down with his parents and discuss everything. So I'm assuming that though his parents didn't go they did sit down and talk. So did they talk or didn't they? Let's assume they talked. They discussed it and both his parents advised him that his best decision was Alabama. But he wanted to go to Auburn. What do you do at that point? Force him to go to Alabama?
I tell you what I'd do. Assuming we discussed it and I gave him my advice, my .02, my opinion of it. I'd let him make the decision. Ultimately we have absolutely no clue at this stage of the game if choosing Auburn is a "bad" decision for him personally. Heck, for all we know the kid might get over there, be a first year "Andre Smith" starter, win a national championship and never look back. Where as come to Alabama, get stuck on the depth chart (like many of them have) and never touch the field. We simply do not know. But assuming him and his parents have discussed his trip to Auburn (and everywhere else), and his parents have had the opportunity to give him their opinion then to me you let him choose where he wants. We can't always protect people from potential bad decisions. Especially those decisions that have so many unknown variables. But to me th best thing for him is to go through the decision making process with his parents, but ultimately let him make the decision on where to go.