Didn’t mean it the way you probably took it - my bad; the last sentence, anyway. It was not meant to be personally negative, just a general comment that it’s always a good idea to avoid threads (or even comments) that you don’t like or feel comfortable talking about, if for no other reason than keeping peace of mind.
I stand by the rest of the post 100%. If that’s what bothered you, well, I don’t know if that’s the reason you’ve avoided this thread or not, but I posted in response yours about arguing “…about the same things.” Maybe that’s not what you meant, but in the context of this thread that’s the way I took it.